A Beginner's Guide To Choosing The Right Adult Toy

With sex toys becoming more widely accepted than ever, people of all genders and experiences are discovering new ways to explore pleasure and intimacy. For first-time buyers, the variety of options can feel overwhelming — but with the right guidance, finding your perfect toy is simple and enjoyable.

Which Type of Sex Toy is Best for Beginners?

Starting out with sex toys can feel daunting, but the key is to start simple and focus on comfort. From gentle stimulators to more advanced devices, there’s something to suit every preference.

Bullet Vibrators

Bullet vibrators are an excellent choice for newcomers because they are:

• Compact and discreet — easy to store or travel with
• Simple to use — perfect for exploring sensations
• Versatile — can be used on all erogenous zones

We recommend the Romp Riot as a great first bullet vibrator.

Dildos — Beginner-Friendly Penetrative Toys

Penetrative toys, such as dildos, are another excellent choice for beginners. They’re straightforward to use with no buttons or complicated settings.

When choosing your first dildo, consider:

• Length and girth: Start small and gradually increase size as you get comfortable
• Suction cup base: Allows for hands-free play and versatility

A great beginner-friendly option is the Seven Creations Silicone Classic Mini Pink Thick Veined 15cm which combines ease of use with gentle texture for a comfortable first experience. If you are looking for a suction base the Piccolo is a great starter toy.

Why Using Lube with Sex Toys Makes a Difference

Lubricant is often overlooked, but it’s a game-changer for anyone using sex toys. Just a small amount can make play smoother, more comfortable, and more enjoyable, whether you’re exploring alone or with a partner.

If you’re new to using toys, starting with a water-based lubricant is the easiest option. It’s gentle on the skin, works with most toy materials, and cleans up effortlessly. Adding lube to your sessions can make a noticeable difference, especially for beginners. We recommend the Wet Stuff lubricant.

🌸 Conclusion

Choosing your first toy doesn’t have to be complicated. Start simple, focus on safety and comfort, and listen to your own preferences. Remember — it’s about confidence, curiosity, and self-care.

If you’re ready to explore, browse our Beginner Collection for safe, thoughtfully selected products designed to help you start your journey comfortably.